It's Final

Today we held the official adoption proceedings. It is just more signing the paperwork and they ask a few questions and boom it's finished. Actually I was really happy because they gave us a traditional Mongolian outfit for Taite and the orphanage had been putting together an album of Taite since she was there. It has dates of when she did things and a lot of photos. The only thing is that I will have to get it translated but it was absolutely beautiful and I am thankful that we have all of this information about her.
After the adoption I was very blessed with company. Jackie, Rich and Gavin stayed and ate lunch and had some playtime with us. I was so happy to have people to talk to and they are great company. I am so thankful that I have met them and we will get to spend more time together over the next 9 days. Their son Gavin is a real little cutie too.
After all of that Taite took a nap and our guide was supposed to take us to go shopping. Unfortunately the paperwork took longer to register and she was unable to meet us so I took Taite up to the pool. That did not go over that well with her and hopefully over the next few months she will warm up to the water since we all love the beach and the pool so much. Then we just had some girl time and ordered room service for dinner. We wound down with a bath and some play time and soon it will be bed time for little on. Right now she is fixated on a mini magna doodle. I thought she would never put down her toy phone and play with something else. She has definitely warmed up to me today and even said 4 words now. Now she did finally say one word in english and that was button. I guess she keeps hearing it from her toy. I amalso  amazed that I asked her to do hi five and she knew what that was. I put my hand up and she did it. I think she will pick everything up quickly.

She is here

Yep after a year of waiting we finally have Taite. It has been a long day and a whirlwind. This morning we all met downstairs in the lobby of my hotel. I waited eagerly downstairs for them to bring` the babies.  I am not the only person in Hohhot who is adopting. There is another family here who I actually connected with before I left and they were getting their son Gavin this morning.
The babies showed up right at 10am and it was hard to believe that there Taite was in the flesh. She seemed very timid and sad. The nanny shared with me that she was sad to be leaving her friends. After a few minutes the tears set in. I think she was terribly scared. I knew that adopting a toddler was going to be rough because of language and just that age when there is so much unknown but yet known. After we completed some paperwork it was time to bond. I brought her up to the room and she did cry for a while then she fell asleep. Finally when she woke up we went to go have lunch and I think we bonded over food. She seems to have a big appetite. She was much happier yet still very reserved. When came back to the room and she took another 20 minute cat nap and then played. She is addicted to the toy cell phone I brought for her. Thank goodness because all the other toys could take a hike for all her cares right now.
Tonight for dinner her and I went to pizza hut and again she ate extremely well. She seems to love food. She was so cute too because at first I started feeding her and blowing on her food then she wanted to take over. She was doing exactly what I was doing. She would put a piece of food and her fork and blow on it. Then she wanted me to say it was ok to eat and she would eat it.
Taite has not spoken a word to me all day. I know they said she was shy but hopefully at some point she will say something. She doesn't like her diaper changed and she loves to drink water.She is also a thumbsucker. I was hoping Taite would not be a thumbsucker since we are still trying to get Lennah and Delylah to quit sucking their thumbs.  Hopefully more of her personality will come out in the next few days.

At lunch

Meeting for the first time

Ready for bed

Day 2 China

Today was a very quiet first day. I stayed in the area and just looked around and shopped a little. There is a ton of shopping here some I will wouldn't be able to afford in a million years (the Louis Vuitton store is in the shopping mall connected to my hotel). But I just did the local shops and I was able to pick up a few gifts today for friends and family. I also ate McDonalds for lunch. Yep I am in China and ate McDonalds. My guide was only with me for a brief time today so I was solo and had no idea where the good local restaurants were. There do not seem to be many people around who speak english so it would be really hard to go into a restaurant and have no idea what you are ordering. There is also a KFC and pizza hut in the area. KFC will only be eaten if I get desperate. I did eat dinner at the hotel tonight and that was good but it definitely was not as cheap as McDonalds. I will say a Big Mac combo cost me a whopping 19 yuan, actually is was $3.19 in US money much cheaper than in Dallas GA. I was excited about my shopping. I found a kitchen apron with Keith's name in it. It seems that there is some popular dog something or other and they go by Oscar, Keith, and Bobby so it has a picture of 3 dogs with each name on it. Keith's dad is Bobby so it was kind of a hoot to find an item in China that had both their names on it. I also picked up these lotions for 3 of my students. I happened to do this project with my kids in school where they had to open a business in Africa and create a product from a resource. Anyway they choose petroleum and were making lotions (yes there is a small amount of petroleum in some lotions). They had used a picture of there product from some hand lotion that came in a bee that they found on the internet. So I was in this shop and low and behold there was the lotion. I had to get it for the girls and can't wait to give it to those student when I get back. That was really it for today. In a little more than 12 hours I will finally meet baby girl. Hopefully I will be able to sleep tonight.

My hotel

Street vendors

Yep it's universal

I thought it was funny that they sold TV's on the street

In Hohhot China

After 32 hours and several hours of sleep I can officially say I am in Hohhot China. It is hard to believe in a day and a half we will finally have baby Taite. This has certainly been a long road.
I guess to tell about my journey I started with a 15 hour flight into Seoul, Korea. The flight was not bad at all. I did get stuck in front of a guy who licked kicking the seat but in between that I did manage to see some zzzz's. I then had an 8 hour layover in the airport in Korea. It is one of those places that if you are going to have to have a layover you will be happy it's there. I just hung out, got some homework done, and did get to have Starbucks (Yeah). It was an exceptionally clean and very friendly airport. While I was there they also had a cool royal family processional reenactment that I got to see.
The next flight was from Seoul to Jinan China. The flight was fine but I will definitely say the last leg of my journey became very boring and blahhhh. Jinan China started out with an extra baggage fee (yep) because I couldn't check my bags all the way through I got stuck because in country China flights only allow one 44lb bag. Since I am traveling without Keith I had to take a second bag for Taite's things. Then when I went to go pay the fee they didn't take debit cards and no one spoke english. Then for an international airport someone would need to explain to me why they did not have a currency exchange because I couldn't pay the fee in US. They then sent me to the ATM and it was all in Chinese. How do you withdraw money if you cannot read the screen? Finally the lady came back over to help me and I paid the stinkin' fee.
When I finally got around to waiting for my in country flight it was delayed. After 24 hours of travel I was not happy about this. Then I had to go use the bathroom and of course it was the hole in the ground potties in the bathroom. I highly recommended finding an alternative route to other areas in China rather than hitting up Jinan international airport. So I hit the gate and wait to get on my flight. Some guy sits down behind me and begins to eat the most foul smelling food I had ever smelled. Finally after several hours in this less than fun airport I had to do the Asia let's all run to the check in to get on the plane deal. I am not quite sure why in Asia they refuse to call people by rows and everyone does the mass exodus to the gate but it was awful when Keith and I went to Vietnam to get Lennah and things certainly have not improved in Asian boarding scenarios since then. Everyone pushes regardless if their are eldery or children; it is absolutely the worst boarding process ever. Then everyone is stopping to put up their carry ons on the plane and blocks the aisles. Common sense people board the back of the plane first and then move towards boarding the front of the plane's rows. Hopefully at some point Asia will get the memo on how to board flights.
Finally after 32 hours my plane finally landed. Thank goodness my guide was there when I got out. She seems like a lovely lady. I am staying at a really nice hotel in Hohhot and was amazed at how beautiful the city was as we drove through it. Hopefully this week there will be some great sighseeing. Whew at least I am finally here.

Royal Reanactment in Korean Airport

Yeah Breakfast in Korea

Jinan airport. Yeah it looks nicer here than it really was.

One week

One week from tonight. I leave to get our baby girl. I am scared, nervous, excited, and just about every other emotion you can have right now. I have never been away from the kids or Keith for two weeks so I am so worried and already missing them. I am worried that they may miss me too and that is a long time for kids to be away from their momma. I am nervous about flying (yep I do get a little anxiety over flying). I am also terrified about adopting a toddler since it is an age we have not experienced. Lennah's adjustment was a piece of cake. I think Keith and I just went into fell throttle mode of becoming parents. It seemed so natural. Delylah adjusted great, I think I had a harder time of adjusting to two children under two and the worries that you might not love your other child because you loved your first so much that you thought you could never love another (so not the case because our love grew for our kids even more). Everyone is always concerned about adopting older kids but honestly I don't even think going from two to five kids that were older shook us up. Yeah they had adjustments and bumps in the road but they knew what was going on. Heather, Logan, and Zach spoke english, they were from America and not leaving every comfort they know behind. They also got the luxury of meeting us before they became apart of our family. So in a sense they have had a pretty easy going adjustment for being older children. Taite is two so I think her transition may be the hardest yet. At two you still can't fully verbalize everything you want or need and you get frustrated. Well I am worried that this may be magnified because not only can you not fully express yourself but you do not speak a lick of the language ther person who is taking care of you does. She is going to go from bonding with me for almost two weeks to come home to a house full of strangers who want to dress her up, carry her around, and play with her because they have been loving on her picture and want to be the big brothers and sisters they have been for a year and she has had no clue about them. She also will have to get used to noise from 3 loud barking dogs and a cat (yep it is certainly a loud house).
Yep! I think we have a bumpy road ahead. I know God does not put more on us than we can handle and he will certainly see us through but we already know that we love her. In just a little more than a week she will officially become Taite Annabelle Paulsen and a new chapter of her life will unfold.

Travel Approval

On Wednesday we received travel approval for Taite. It seemed to be the last step in all of our hurdles to get our little girl. We are still waiting for the consulate to confirm our visa appointment to go pick up our girl. We are also running into some snags with an issue with the way Keith's middle name is spelled on some paperwork. Hopefully all of these things will come to pass on Monday and everything will be secured that I can leave on March 21st to bring home our little girl. We need big prayers this weekend that everything will work out.

We did also receive what will hopefully be our last update on Taite yesterday. She is still doing well and hopefully she will flourish once she gets home.

Happy Birthday Logan

Yesterday was Logan's birthday and we started the celebrations last weekend. On Sunday Logan wanted his friend to come over, share some cake, and have some guy time at the movies with dad. I think it was a great way to spend a 14th birthday. It is also great to see that Logan has made a great friend and that they have a lot in common.
We also decided to drag on the celebration since school was out this week and head up to the Smoky Mountains and hit up Wilderness at the Smokies. Keith and I had taken Lennah and Delylah there several years ago so I thought the big kids would love it. Unfortunately Keith had to work so I was solo handling all five kids but it went well. I was surprised that they didn't give me too bad a hard. Heather, Logan, and Zach virtually went off and did a lot of rides alone while I of course watched the little kids. Teens never want to hang out with the parents. Lennah and Delylah had to spend time juggling between whose turn it was to pick what activity we would do next. Lennah hates big water slides while Delylah loves them so it is a chore to call back a big kid to watch Lennah while I take Delylah down a slide but it worked out well in the end. Zach also cracked us up because he went on the surf rider and lost his shorts on the ride. We all cracked up. He did manage to get them back on and he was laughing along with everyone else over the mishap.

Getting Close

We are getting so close to bringing Taite home. We had a little hold up with the consulate but I got an email tonight saying that our article 5 was picked up and that now we are waiting for travel approval. So it looks like March I will be heading to China to pick up our little girl. We have been working on finishing Taite's room and it is looking pretty good so far. It will look even better with our little one inside of it.

Christmas

/> We spend so much time getting ready for Christmas and then it is gone in a flash. This year was a great Christmas for the kids. Before Christmas we did the usual tradition of driving around and looking at Christmas lights and getting milkshakes. It is a strange tradition since most people have hot chocolate but one year when Lennah and Delylah were little we stopped at Steak and Shake to pick up milkshakes while we were looking at lights and the girls never forgot about it so we have to go all the time. The bigs ones also fell in love with this tradition so we have just went with it.
We also hit up Pettit Creek Farms this year to check out the lights. We hadn't done that one since Delylah was really little; mainly because Lennah got bit by a camel when we went there and she had never forgotten about it. Well low and behold she still remembered and did not want to go anywhere near the camels this time.
Christmas morning was the usual mess. The kids get up at the crack of dawn and wake up the whole house (my parents always spend the night on Christmas eve). Everyone was so happy that they got what they asked for and I was happy that I was able to get Heather the laptop she was begging for a great price. Santa even left some gifts for Taite under the tree that we are saving for her until she gets home. Overall it was a great holiday that is now over. Tomorrow I head back to work and the kids go back to school on Monday.

Happy Birthday Taite

Taite is 2 years old today. We wish we could be with her and we could be celebrating together. HAPPY BIRTHDAY Little one you will be home soon!