Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Not Good News

We did receive word from our agency today that things are not going to move ahead for quite sometime. We have no idea when our baby will come home so we are totally depressed. This could take months. All we can do is pray that this will come to pass and she can come home. THis is hard on us because we wanted an infant and now we are faced with the possibility that she can be over one when we bring her home. Obviously, we love her but I know how as time goes on the adjustment becomes harder for the child to make so we will have more challenges than we originally planned on. I know God only places what we can handle on our plates but being faced with this is really tearing us up. We are so attached to this baby and it is hard not to get attached and honestly we did talk about asking our agency to find us another placement because we are scared to death of bringing home an older child right now but she is ours and too hard to walk away from. I truly realized this when our friends sent us more photos of Delylah from their trip. In the photos they were showing her the photo album we sent her. How could we ever give her up when even though she may never remember she saw her family and big sister waiting for her. I could not live with myself knowing that someone told her we were coming for her and then take it away because we were being selfish and planned on having an infant. We all wish we could be there from day one but sometimes that is not in God's plans for us so we have to roll with it.
The only positive that may come out of this is because of financial reasons it was looking like only I would travel because obviously airfare is on the rise. Now, we the possibility of more time to save Keith may be able to go after all.
Please pray for us and the other families affected by this situation we are all heartbroken that our babies cannot come home right now.
ALso keep my friend Jamie's little boy in your prayers he too is waiting to come home like Delylah but had a nasty eye infection right now.

Monday, June 23, 2008

A Little Lift

What cute little toes

Well, today we received 15 new photos of Delylah. Our agency sent 5 and our friends Tymm, Laura, and Meron sent us ten photos from their trip to get baby Meron. That was a definate lift in our spirits because we have been so down about not knowing when we will get to bring our little girl home. We also received a little update on her weight and she is a little butterball at 15 and a half pounds. I am now hoping that Lennah's clothes will fit Delylah after all because Lennah was just shy of 15 pounds when we brought her home at almost 8 months and Delylah just turned 5 months on Friday. Hopefully, we will hear something about Delylah's orphanage starting to process cases soon. Keep us in your prayers.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Delray beach


















So we took our second trip to Florida this year. Typically we try to take two different vacations but this year it just worked out to were we visited Florida twice. We went to the beach with of course Grandma, Grandpa, and Uncle Billy and stayed at a wonderful resort right across from the ocean. We also split up the trip and stopped for one night in the Orlando area and of course had to do something disney so we ate at a Disney resort for breakfast. This was also a great trip because our friend Todd moved down near this area and it was his first time meeting Lennah. Unfortunately, I forgot to bust out the camera but next time I will have to. Lennah was a little more timid of the beach this time around than when we visited Clearwater several months ago. Apparently, she does not like sand on her feet anymore so we had to carry her everywhere on the beach because she refused to step down.

I am also going to share with everyone to never say never. I was the parent who swore that my child was not going to watch tv before 2 years old. Boy, has that come back to bite me. Lennah started watching Dora the explorer several weeks ago and we bought a portable DVD for the car on the way down to occupy her on the ten hour drive and now she is addicted. I also have now memorized the entire Dora intro song. Sad isn't it?

We ate at a wonderful Vietnamese restaurant down in Boca while we were vacationing. The food was awesome so if anyone is ever in that area you have to check out the restaurant La Tre Vietnamese. It tasted just like the food we had in Vietnam they even had this seafood dish I had in Vietnam that was served over fried rice noodles.
Here's some pics from our trip.

Still No News

Well, things are getting frustrating. We were out of town last week and were hoping that something positive would come to light and that we might by some miracle beat the court closing after all if cases started being processed again but no such luck. We did have our friends Tymm and Laura go to pick up their little girl Meron last week and visit with Delylah but of course we would rather be holding her ourselves. We also have another fellow Illien adopting family heading there this week to visit their baby and our kiddos and they will be giving Delylah lots of love. I am just praying that something changes soon. I hate the wait. We just want our little girl to come home.

Monday, June 9, 2008

Depressing News

I cannot really get into the details but things are a little shaky where Delylah is at right now. This will now cause a hold up on her adoption and Keith and I are so sad that she will not be home for several more months. It should have been around August when we brought her home but some issues arose in the orphanage she is at and this is causing major paperwork delays. In turn we will not beat the court closing for the rainy season which lasts from August 6th-September 25 this year. Please keep this oprhanage in your prayers, the other families adopting from there right now (who are in the same situation as us), and the children. We hate knowing that our Delylah is growing up right now without her mommy and daddy and it is going to take even longer to bring her home.
Also pray for our friends Tymm and Laura who are leaving Friday to get their baby girl Meron. She is Delylah's crib mate and they were the ones who brought us to our Delylah.