Monday, March 25, 2013

She is here

Yep after a year of waiting we finally have Taite. It has been a long day and a whirlwind. This morning we all met downstairs in the lobby of my hotel. I waited eagerly downstairs for them to bring` the babies.  I am not the only person in Hohhot who is adopting. There is another family here who I actually connected with before I left and they were getting their son Gavin this morning.
The babies showed up right at 10am and it was hard to believe that there Taite was in the flesh. She seemed very timid and sad. The nanny shared with me that she was sad to be leaving her friends. After a few minutes the tears set in. I think she was terribly scared. I knew that adopting a toddler was going to be rough because of language and just that age when there is so much unknown but yet known. After we completed some paperwork it was time to bond. I brought her up to the room and she did cry for a while then she fell asleep. Finally when she woke up we went to go have lunch and I think we bonded over food. She seems to have a big appetite. She was much happier yet still very reserved. When came back to the room and she took another 20 minute cat nap and then played. She is addicted to the toy cell phone I brought for her. Thank goodness because all the other toys could take a hike for all her cares right now.
Tonight for dinner her and I went to pizza hut and again she ate extremely well. She seems to love food. She was so cute too because at first I started feeding her and blowing on her food then she wanted to take over. She was doing exactly what I was doing. She would put a piece of food and her fork and blow on it. Then she wanted me to say it was ok to eat and she would eat it.
Taite has not spoken a word to me all day. I know they said she was shy but hopefully at some point she will say something. She doesn't like her diaper changed and she loves to drink water.She is also a thumbsucker. I was hoping Taite would not be a thumbsucker since we are still trying to get Lennah and Delylah to quit sucking their thumbs.  Hopefully more of her personality will come out in the next few days.


At lunch

Meeting for the first time


Ready for bed

1 comment:

Mindee said...

Congrats! I am so happy for you!